Buyer Beware: When the Trainers at the Gym are Big Stupid Bullies

dumbellsWhat happens when you sign one of those one-sided, draconian gym contracts and then find yourself verbally and emotionally abused by the trainers in that gym?  Think you’ll get out of the contract?  Maybe, maybe not.  In the ever growing pile of “stuff on my facebook feed that makes me totally aggro” was this story on a site called Consumerist.  This site shares stories of people who feel they have been ripped off.  I am disappointed that the Consumerist felt the need to redact the name of the gym, although they are happy to name other companies (Kohl’s, Michaels) in other stories.  Maybe they felt that the gym was so small it might be a little too easy to figure out who the bad guys are and where they park their cars.

Anywho, the story’s victims, Shayla and Mr. Shayla joined a gym.  They took the first of their two “free personal training” sessions with a trainer who “pressured them” to sign up for personal training services.  (*Note this happens very often in some gyms.) When the couple (both plus-sized) mentioned that they were going to try on their own for a while, the trainer looks at their bellies and says, “Obviously what you’re doing so far, isn’t working.”  So Shayla and Mr. Shayla tell the manager they want a different trainer for their second (and final) free training session.  But now the first trainer is harassing Shayla and Mr. Shayla at every opportunity.  The wronged couple jumps through many hoops to try to talk to a manager.  When they finally get through, they ask to be let out of their contract.  They are denied at every level.  As Shayla says, “I am forced to watch them deduct money from my credit card each month (a portion of which, naturally, goes to my abuser), with no recourse until my contract expires.”

At the end of the article there’s an opinion poll asking:

Should the gym let Shayla out of her contract?

___No. If she doesn’t want people to point and laugh, she should lose more weight.

___No. She should wait and see whether her complaint does any good first.

___It’s her fault for not buying personal training sessions.

___Yes. Everyone should be able to find exercise that suits them in a respectful, jerk-free environment.

First of all, let me tell you that I was able to maintain the tiny thread of hope I hold out for humanity when I saw the responses–over 92 percent voted for the final “yes” response.  But I have to tell you, I thought of a few other options:

__Yes.  And if the company won’t do it, she should contact her local television station and share the story for a potential “expose” story.  Lots of stations love these stories and companies should expect public humiliation when they allow their employees to humiliate customers.

___Yes.  And Mr. and Mrs. Shayla should get x-large t-shirts printed that say, “I don’t train with [Name of personal trainer] cuz’ he’s a bully.” and hand them out in the gym parking lot.

___Yes.  And somebody should remind that gym about what happened when 24 Hour Fitness thought it was cool to put up billboards that were insulting to fat folks.

___Yes.  And redacted, my @ss.  I need the address, phone number and license plate number of that bozo that was doing the bullying!

But seriously folks, there are a few important lessons to be learned here.  One lesson is to be very, very careful when you join a gym–especially for a period of time of one year or longer.  There are many super-awesome completely reputable gyms that will give you a wonderful, safe, comfortable place to work out.  There are, unfortunately, also a number of gyms out there who just want to get you to sign a contract and  will never, ever, like for any reason, let you out of it.  They don’t care if you have a good experience.  In fact their idea of the perfect customer is the one who is a perpetual member who never, ever shows up at the gym.  Don’t believe me?  Go take a look at some of the complaints with your local Better Business Bureau.  I’ll bet at least one group is about a lousy gym with bad business practices.  Buyer beware, people.  Check out Yelp.  Google the name of the gym you are considering and the word “complaint”.  Ask around.  If you do get a contract, there should be a reasonable clause in it for both parties to opt out.  Don’t listen to any glib verbal assurances given by the salespeople.  Go with what’s written on the paper.  Consider trying the gym for a month or even three before signing up with a contract.  If there are no month to month or even 3-month options, consider this a red flag and check even closer into the gym’s practices.  Again many gyms are awesome, but some clearly are not.  Be careful.

And finally, yay for Shayla and Mr. Shayla for standing up for themselves.  There is no excuse for any fitness professional to treat you with anything other than courtesy and respect. EVER. None.  Zero.  Nada.  If this happens to you, call it out, complain about it, but don’t put up with it.  Because people of all sizes deserve courtesy and respect.

Love,
The Fat Chick

P.S.  Looking for a safe place to work out?  How about your living room?  You could always try my live streaming classes.  They are totally cost and contract FREE!

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7 thoughts on “Buyer Beware: When the Trainers at the Gym are Big Stupid Bullies

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  3. rabbiadar

    What makes me saddest about stories like these is that a good personal trainer can make a big difference to someone who faces challenges with exercise. A few years ago I decided to see if I could find a trainer who could actually help me – I have mobility problems, arthritis, some old injuries, and other stuff . I used yelp.com to check them out. I found a wonderful woman named Brittany Shaddle, who coaches me with compassion and a deep knowledge of the body. Three years later, I’m still exercising on a regular basis, a huge leap forward for me. I enjoy Pilates and work with weights because they are FUN. A trainer who is a genuine professional can change your life – so it makes me sick to hear about bullies in that line of work. I hope the Shaylas eventually found their Brittany, and are now enjoying workouts as the pleasure they should be.

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  4. The Real Cie

    Wanna get people to love exercise and stick with it? Why, bullying them and telling them that the only way they’ll be successful is if they lose weight is surely the way–so not!
    I never had this kind of horrible experience with a personal trainer, fortunately. But I was still in the “weight loss” mindset, and that was the direction in which she kept pushing me. I eventually stopped going to the gym because I wasn’t losing weight.
    At this point I am very fortunate to work in a place that allows the staff access to the therapy pool. I work night shift, so I come in a couple hours before my shift and work out in the therapy pool. Weight loss is not and never again will be a measure of my success. Yes, I do push myself but not to the point of puking or hating exercise the way I used to do. It’s great for my fibromyalgia, and I find that I am much more flexible now.

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  5. neverdietagainuk

    If it’s any consolation, if the situation is anything like in the UK, the trainer probably gets paid shit, if at all, probably has to make all his earnings from personal training, and has to give a portion of that to the gym for letting him use their space to get clients. So yay, bozo, keep up the good work!

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