We had the house tented for termites this past weekend. This is a rite of passage that nearly all Southern California folks go through at some point in their lives, and it is a big pain in the tuckus. We had to be out of the house for several days and we had to spend many hours prepping the house for the process. Frankly we were dreading the whole thing. We had researched some hotels in town that could accommodate us and our dog and we were frankly less than thrilled with the options.
Then my awesome husband came up with a brilliant idea. “Let’s go camping!” he said. I was skeptical. I was waiting to hear back from a show producer. I had piles and piles of work to do and I knew the campground didn’t have wi-fi. How could I realistically take the weekend off? I also wasn’t sure that prepping to live in a tent while we were prepping to tent the house seemed like such a good idea, but I agreed. And getting ready for the trip was kind of tough with everything else going on, but boy am I ever glad we did.
We finally had just a breath of fall. It was so nice to don a light jacket at night and to live without the whirr of the AC for a few days. The weather was frankly, perfect. Warm, sunny, clear and gorgeous. We spent a lot of time doing nothing. We walked. We talked. We looked at trees. We tasted apple cider. We played with the dog.
This was definitely a lemons to lemonade situation here. I had been wanting to take some time off, but just felt that I couldn’t. I was clearly tense, frustrated and completely out of energy. But somehow I felt I needed to keep slogging. I was trying to keep the farm running and the livestock fed with an empty barn.
It was just a reminder that sometimes you have to stop and fill the barn. Sometimes you have to quit waving the pitchfork around and you need to go get some hay. Sometimes you’ve got to refuel.
Sure, I took almost a whole weekend off. (I still took a producer call on Friday night and taught class Saturday morning.) And you know what? The world kept on turning. I remembered that I have a family who loves me. And I am ready to face that huge pile of stuff to do again with renewed energy and purpose.
I’m remembering again that I am one very lucky fat chick!
The Fat Chick