Hey there! Sorry I haven’t blogged in a few days. I’ve been on the roller coaster and hanging on for dear life. Seems like that’s the way of it, doesn’t it? First you’re on top of the world, and then BOOM, sick in bed with a terrible, nasty, icky head cold.
It’s not like I haven’t taken prophylactic measures. I’ve been taking lots of vitamin C, drinking lots of water, washing my hands raw and all of that good stuff. I’ve been doing my very best to get good sleep and trying my best to manage stress.
Ever since I felt a sniffle, I’ve been rubbing menthol on my feet and sucking a zinc lozenge every few hours and drinking massive quantities of tea.
I’m doing everything that statistics suggest I should to prevent and minimize colds. So why am I still sick?
I got sick because I got sick. No matter how many steps you take, you can stick get sick at any time. Does that mean I shouldn’t have taken those steps to try to minimize my risk and minimize my symptoms? Well no. The steps didn’t have many potentially negative side effects and weren’t too difficult. And they might have worked. And who knows, things might have been worse had I not taken those steps.
But this is the thing about statistics and health. If there’s a 1% chance of getting sick, that means that out of every 100 people, about 1 will get sick. And no matter how many remedies you try, no matter how strong your immune system may be, that one person might be you. And as tempting as it might be to believe you didn’t get sick because of the mouthwash you used, or the special ritual you followed, you might not have gotten sick because of dumb luck.
So as much as we may wish to believe that we are “healthy” because we are virtuous people who eat whole grain cereal and do yoga, I think we need to give at least a passing nod to all the other stuff that goes into it. As Fall Ferguson writes in her post on the ASDAH blog: there are many, many factors that go into whether or not a person is healthy. Doing healthy stuff is just one of those things. So where does this leave us?
We may wish to do stuff that increases our odds of being healthy. How much stuff we are able to do may well be decided by our socioeconomic status or access to good healthcare. How effective those healthy behaviors are may well be decided by our genetic makeup. How much stuff we choose to do is up to each and every one of us. It’s time we give up the notion that being healthy is “virtuous” and being sick is a sign that we are “weak, lazy, undisciplined or unconcerned”. Sometimes we just got sneezed on by the wrong person at the wrong time. There are no guarantees.
So even though I feel tired, and cranky and stuffed up and sneezy and sick, I choose not to bother feeling guilty.
The Fat Chick
P.S. Still waiting to hear when our Katie Couric episode will air. Will keep you posted! oxoxoxoxox